3-4 days per week
week one: observation-comment-question
week two: put-on
week three: blurt-out-sincerity
week four: mix
Three Types of Openers
Observation-Comment-Question Opener
Simple, make an internal observation.
"I noticed you standing there..."
"XYZ Question"
Put-On Opener
Approach with a goofy, funny humorous opener.
Accomplishes:
Relieves tension
Shows I'm humorous
Reveals to her that my world is fun.
Blurt-Out Sincerity (optionally w/Genuine Intuition) Opener Quotes
Criteria for Blurt-Out
CANNOT be sexual
BEST if true.
Accomplishes:
Shows I'm assertive and reveals that I share what I think and that I am genuine!.
Examples
"I was sitting here and I was thinking if I didn't go talk to her, I'd kick myself for a week."
Hints:
MUST be delivered with fear NOR neeed.
After delivering it, step back and just accept and observer her response.
Genuine Intuition
How to Do it:
Use Genuine Intuition (speaking from belly-button).
Comes from reading 100s of thousands of people and knowing things.
How to Apply It:
Speak From your bellybutton.
Approach -- Every Flavor of Opener
Pre-Opener
Screen
Simply approach fun, playful, open, attractive women.
Never take First Response Written In stone.
Because her first response is NOT about ME; it's about what she's thinking at that time, forget her first response.
The conversation starts at the second response. If her second response is negative.
Extra-Long Handshake
Look in her and hold the handshake just for a second longer.
Always precedes "After Opener, Step Back".
Accomplishes:
Shows dominance and directness and reminds her that I am a masculine male and not a girlfriend of hers with a penis.
After Opener, Take Step Back
Whether the response is positive, neutral, or negative, Always take a step back.
Accomplishes:
Provides safety after the extra-long handshake
Shows her I am not confrontational.
Gives her her space.
Shows I am respectful to her and provides her with control.
Gives me indicators of her being "live wire" of an interest and an investment in the conversation.
Callibrate her Level of Comfort
Accomplishes:
Let's me see how long and how far I need to retreat during the "step back".
Provides you with
Never have direct squared-up confrontation for first Opener
Always have angled conversation, in addition to taking a step back.
Accomplishes:
Shows her I am not confrontational.
Approach -- Intermittent Tricks
Strategic Pause
This one is ALL about a pregnant randomly-interspersed pause. It creates response potential. Additionally the Strategic pause shows that you aren't in a hurry. Two objectives are accomplished with the pregnant pause.
1. Generates Response Potential
2. Reveals that I am not in a hurry and Conversationally available
Compassion and Clarity is Extremely Attractive
***Implied Compliment****
Why this works:
Even very attractive women have negative feelings about themselves. If you say a direct compliment "You're beautiful", she'll perceive it in her left brain, process it and negate it. If you have an implied compliment, her RIGHT brain will interpret it and it'll be easier for her to perceive the compliment. Implied compliment:
Example:"I don't have control over this tendency of mine. If I see an absolutely clear -- like lucid-looking person, like uniquely clear, I have to atleast say "hi" to them. So I knew I'd be kicking myself for a week if I didn't talk to you!"
(That's an implied compliment combined with blurt-out).
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Jeffries Notes
his material is superior to mystery's material.
His material is more genuine and treats women better and will generate better results.
Jeffries is hardshell and then soft inner. that's GOOD. BEST is rough outside, good inside.
For presentations.
jeffries is genuien and HAS the material
Mystery just copied it. lmao. not cool.
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